hi i just asked a question about 40 minutes ago about losing my job after 32 years thanks to all who answered,
i needed positive feedback and some compassion, my mother died of breast cancer and i worked for a hospital, thats is really depressing, i have asked my family doctor for a phyc. consultation. my personal physician is also the hospitals director of the board. so thanks for all the responses so far i need help. and money, they cut off my unemployment because they told unemployment i was working some where part time. i will never work again. i have been reduced to nothing, now receivng medicaid, in the welfare line. how sad after 32 years of dedicated service. the person i trained, was about 9 years younger then myself. i was 50 at the time. no hard feeling for her. and noone has stayed in touch with me.
thanks again for trying to help me. god bless all of you, for trying to help me. there still are good people out there. i will always believe that. and what goes around comes around. i’m not a mean person i would do anything for anyone.
I didn’t see your 1st question but i understand where you’re coming from. I lost my job lastyear after 23 years (plant closed). Thought i had a future with them but now relize that job security is a thing of the past. It’s been a tough year. Took a couple different jobs and hated them both. Quit both after only 3 weeks. Fortunately, i’m in a position that i don’t need to work for awhile yet. Using my savings and severance pay to survive for awhile. Depression was really bad for awhile but i’m coming around and starting to live again thanks to a couple close friends. My heart goes out to you. We’ll make it somehow.
July 21st, 2010 at 11:13 am
Dang! your situation is a downer. Don’t give up just yet…..
I sense that something good about a house or land is coming your way.
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July 21st, 2010 at 11:58 am
I didn’t see your 1st question but i understand where you’re coming from. I lost my job lastyear after 23 years (plant closed). Thought i had a future with them but now relize that job security is a thing of the past. It’s been a tough year. Took a couple different jobs and hated them both. Quit both after only 3 weeks. Fortunately, i’m in a position that i don’t need to work for awhile yet. Using my savings and severance pay to survive for awhile. Depression was really bad for awhile but i’m coming around and starting to live again thanks to a couple close friends. My heart goes out to you. We’ll make it somehow.
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July 21st, 2010 at 12:16 pm
That’s so sad. It is hard to pick up the pieces. I quit a job that was making me sick last year and guess what—I see lots of people I used to work with and they are pretty mean to me. It hurts because I had to do what I had to do, but they don’t know that. Don’t take their behaviour personally, because it’s just office politics. They might feel that they are betraying the company if they talk to you. I haven’t heard a word from anyone at my last job and I was there for years. They see me out somewhere and turn and go in the other direction, or make strained chit-chat when I initiate the conversation.
I hope the best for you. God Bless, and don’t let the turkeys get you down. And welfare is there to help people who need it, so don’t despair. Your day will come when you are on top of the world again.
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July 21st, 2010 at 12:58 pm
You need to reinvent yourself and find a job.
Don’t let the pity pot get to you. I found 4 new careers after the age of 50. I worked at a tax office, a plant nursery, the USPS, and as a caregiver for Hospice patients. Just hold your head up and move on with what you can be. Look at the happy and get rid of the unhappy.
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